While growing up, through a series of explicit and implicit messages, I believed “order” was necessary to be accepted, chosen and loved. In other words, I needed to be perfect. I couldn’t change the freckles on my skin (which I …
In the Light: Healing Sexual Intimacy After Porn, Sexual Addiction and Betrayal
This is part of a series of posts about journeying through a husband’s addiction to porn. I recently shared about what the sexual intimacy healing process has looked like for my husband, Jason, and I in a marriage marked by betrayal …
In the Dark: Healing Sexual Intimacy After Porn and Infidelity
I’ll never forget the first time my husband, Jason, and I had the opportunity to speak together to a group of couples at a retreat deep in the mountains of Colorado. We were there to share our story and more …