Jason and Shelley Martinkus bravely shared their story in the Summer 2014 issue of Hello, Darling magazine. The issue of the magazine is called “The Privilege of Femininity.” We discussed a myriad of topics that shape and inform our understanding of …
What if I want More Sex Than My Husband?
The Question I want and need more sex than my husband in our marriage. It’s a lonely struggle. I’ve heard men want sex all the time, but that doesn’t seem to be the case with my husband. He only wants …
no-hey-hey-in-the-va-jay-jay
No “Hey! Hey!!” in the Va-Jay-Jay? What questions do you have about marriage or sex? Because we want to answer them! We posted this answer to a popular, but not-often-talked-about, question about the female orgasm last year, and it became …
What If You Initiated Sex
One question I get asked a lot from women is, “How can I feel more comfortable about initiating sex?” If initiating makes you feel uncomfortable, you’re not alone. Some women struggle to get past their good-girls-don’t-like-sex upbringings, while others feel …
Can of Dates
Confession: I’m a Valentine’s Day scrooge. I hate the colors. I hate the gifts. I hate the way I felt when I was single, and I hate the way I feel now that I’m not. My husband is a romantic, …
10 Sexy Gift Ideas for Him
Looking for the perfect gift for your man? I asked some card-carrying-dudes to email me a list of gift ideas they’d love to receive from their wives. Ladies, here’s the inside scoop: Create a book of coupons redeemable for treats …
It’s Not Just You
It’s Not Just You I was crying on the toilet for the second time that week. We had been married six months anddespite my husband’s tender and creative attention, the only release I found in lovemaking wascrying afterward. Before our …
Everyone Wants a Piece of Me!
Have you ever had the feeling that everyone “wants a piece of you?” I certainly have! I am positive as mothers of preschoolers and young children, you probably feel this numerous times a day. My neighbor, Heather, who has three …